The Emotional Roller Coaster When Using Your First Huge Dildo


Dildos are not something unheard of today but there are lots of women who are yet to try it. They usually have lots of questions and apprehensions which kind of limit them from finally buying the toy and exploring it’s amazing pleasure. Among the various questions that come up here, one of the most common is- “how does the dildo actually feel?”.

So, how does it feel for the first time?

Now, the feelings and sensations felt by human bodies are not always the same. In other words, two women may not feel the same way with their body while using the same thing. It’s something similar with the dildos.   Different women have experienced different sensations while using the toy for the first time.

To some, dildo play was extremely pleasant from the very first day. However, there are some women who have mentioned about slight pain down under while penetrating with a dildo. Dildos are strategically designed with a tapered end to make penetration easy. Their solid body is designed to fill you up with a powerful filling sensation down under. So, it’s pretty natural to enjoy that “fuller” feel with a dildo right from the first day. About those who have felt pain, there could be a few problems. First, it could be that the woman used the dildo with no or less lubrication. Lubes are important as they make the road slippery, reduce friction and allow a smooth pain-free penetration. Besides, you may also find your dildo play painful if you use a large oversized dildo. You should always choose the size of dildo based on your experience level. If you are just starting out, proceed with a small dildo no bigger than 6” in size.

How does dildo experience differ from penis penetration?

A lot of women who are yet to try a dildo are confused on the differences between dildo penetration and penis penetration. Now, the level of pleasure experienced with both is almost the same. But then, there are certain key differences here.

Dildo never loses energy

Unlike a human penis, dildo will never run out of energy. It will remain firm and hard throughout penetration. The toy will never become limp any time. Thus, when you want intense and prolonged penetration, dildo is your best bet.  Besides, you can always control a dildo. If you find it’s getting too overwhelming for you, you can always take it out. But, it’s not always the case with a penis. When you are having sex with a human, the duration of penetration also depends on the will of the man.

Dildo could be slightly painful

It should not be denied that dildo could seem to be painful for some women, at least initially. It’s because human flesh is always softer than a foreign inanimate material. It’s true that dildos today are made from flesh-like materials such as silicone or cyberskin- but none of them can match the unrivalled softness of human skin and flesh.

Thus, you should always use a lubricant while using a dildo. Lubes help to minimize friction and makes things slippery so that the dildo can easily glide inside. Just be careful to check beforehand that the lube you are using is compatible with the material of the dildo. In this light, it can be mentioned that water-based lubes are compatible with all kinds of dildo materials.

You will have to man the dildo

If you are flying solo, it’s you who will have to hold the dildo. This is not certainly not the case when you are having sex with a man. In that case, it’s the man who penetrates you and controls the movement of the penis. Your hands remain free. However, if you are using dildo with a partner, it’s your partner who can hold the dildo so that you can use your hands for other stuff. For example, when your partner is penetrating you with a dildo from the front, you can use your hands to stimulate him with a sexy massage.

Besides, it’s to remind here that dildo isn’t connected to brain the way penis is. It does not have the cognitive ability to look for your G-spot on its own or slow down and speed up as required. So, if you are playing solo, it’s you will have to control the motions of the toy.

A more stretched out feel

And how does it feel to enjoy anal penetration with a dildo? Well, according to most of the users, you will experience a more stretched out feel as the dildo enters your backdoor. This is because of two reasons. One, the anal muscle is tighter in comparison to vagina. Thus, when you penetrate anything inside, it will need more thrush which will result in more extensive stretching of the anal muscles. The other reason is that dildos are more rigid that a human penis. When you will enter a harder object inside, there will be more stretching.

Once again, it’s crucial to mention about the use of lubes here. Lubrication is even more important when you are using the dildo on your backdoor. The anal region can’t produce lubrication naturally unlike vagina. Thus, you will need more lube here than what is usually need while using the toy for front penetration.

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Final words

So, you have got a pretty comprehensive discussion about using a dildo. To sum up, although the toy could feel little painful initially yet you will experience a rewarding orgasm over time. Just make sure to get the right size of dildo, use plenty of lube and don’t be rough with the thrust. There is nothing to be scared of here. All you would need is an open mind and willing body.

It’s also to note here that dildo or any sex toy can never replace the significance of a partner. No sex toy has the capacity to convey the warmth you get from your man. They are only meant to enhance the fun quotient and add little more spice to your intimate sessions.